Every day as a wide field, every page
Naomi Shihab Nye
modern korean-american flavor
Every day as a wide field, every page
Naomi Shihab Nye
scapegoat
noun
1.a person who is blamed for the wrongdoings, mistakes, or faults of others, especially for reasons of expediency.
2. one that is the object of irrational hostility
I didn’t read a manual on how-to-become a legendary scapegoat. I didn't know that being on the wrong side of the blame game could become a skill. But when you’re blamed for the failures of others over and over again, the process of being a scapegoat becomes a habit, whether you like it or not, and by default, I got so good at being blamed for other people’s shortcomings, I became an expert scapegoat…
Working Together
David Whyte
We shape our self
to fit this world
and by the world
are shaped again.
The visible
and the invisible
working together
in common cause,
to produce
the miraculous.
I am thinking of the way
the intangible air
traveled at speed
round a shaped wing
easily
holds our weight.
So may we, in this life
trust
to those elements
we have yet to see
or imagine,
and look for the true
shape of our own self,
by forming it well
to the great
intangibles about us.
By every reasonable measure, I am a poor judge of character.
For the last fifty years, I have allowed myself to invest my heart, time, energy, and resources into countless failed relationships because my stubborn desire to believe the best in people mattered more to me than trusting my better judgment about situations I knew were doomed from the start…